Why is it that some people only want to talk to you when you are having problems in your life. It's kind of weird having this person call you, they come to see you and seem kind of concerned, they want to know in full details how crappy you feel, how stressed you are. How bad you are at that point in your life.... When you had Amazing things going on, they weren't there, when you accomplished greatness, no one cared. These same people did nothing to celebrate that special time in your life. It is just weird, and it makes you wonder, if these people even care in the first place or are they just programed to care because life & blood made it that way. I believe sibling grow up, apart, and they create their own families. They live there own lives, they see there relatives on holidays, and special birthdays but for the most part they live separate lives. Therefore, when you go through something in your life, you should have only those their who you actually spent time with, the ones you could call if something was wrong.. In life some people don't change, others do. For that reason, we grow apart. Just because you are related to someone doesn't mean you need to only call them when they are stressed, or depressed. They may only want to associate with people whom they were actually close with nothing personal. What if you don't have anyone like that in your family? You seek therapy... If you want to grow, change the way you think, not live a life of doubting everything you do or say because someone else may not agree. Some people, just need to live their own lives, go through their own trails, make their peace. Please don't just come around when I am under pressure, it's already humiliating, your presence only make it worst being that you only come around when my life is in chambers. Excuse me for not knowing how to take that, come around when I am happy. How do you say that to someone not trying to hurt there feelings, but I don't want to talk about my difficulties in life.. I'll chat with counselors and people who are actually really there... Thanks for your concern but NO thank you.